Breaking Boundaries and Everything in Between
While most countries discuss how they can bridge gaps and improve relations, Blind Cupids decided to try their hand at breaking barriers in a different way, by promoting interracial dating. How does that help you ask? It is simple. It breaks stereotypes you have about a certain race and how they are. It allows you to meet people and chat with them. It gives you more opportunities to meet someone right.
In college, I met loads of people from all over the world. But classes and assignments got the better of me and I never managed to date many people. After college it has been work, work and more work. I had reached a stage where I wanted to meet people and date a few too. Life was passing me by. That is when my sister suggested I try Blind Cupids. I was hesitant at first because I knew what women thought of, when they saw men on dating sites. This was an interracial dating site so I was even more worried.
But as soon as I signed up, my worries vanished. They had a video profile which meant I could be me and hoped someone likes me. I decided to sing a song in the video and was happy to read the comments women had posted below. One said ‘Love your voice. You sound like a dream’. As my confidence soar, I started talking to different women and played games with a few too.
Blind Cupids helped me regain the life I thought I had lost. I started singing more. I had a video chat once, where the girl played the Piano, while I sang. She wasn’t even from the same country as I. My views on interracial dating have changed drastically ever since. I don’t think there are any boundaries when it comes to people. We are all the same on some level or the other.
Contrast, the blog helped me learn ways to approach women from all over the world. They were really effective because one girl called me ‘Chivalrous’. The forum answered many of my questions and introduced me to people who shared similar interests as me.
What takes the cake is that this interracial dating site lets you choose people on basis of their personality, interests, character and hobbies. Not on basis of where they are located, how they look, how they expect their match to look etc. It is a welcome change from all the confidence breaking sites where you wait for days before anybody says hello.
Blind Cupids has made me learn about people all around the globe. It has introduced me to people I would’ve never met otherwise. Apart from boosting my morale, it also showed me all the things people can do in this world. I don’t know if I have met my match yet. But, the opportunity to find her just opened up.